Call Home Once Per Month

                    The incident happened a couple of days ago but I still quite care and annoy for that lecturer's action. That day, the lecturer was showing off around about her husband and daughters as we read an article about "孝" for Chinese culture.

                    Then, she asked we all how often we call home usually and so I answered : "once per month." Ya... Honestly, I don't usually call home. So what?! You don't have to go to tell everybody. That's non of your business. Although you didn't mention name but that really makes me feel annoying. As a lecturer, is that how you should be? I didn't call home everyday do not mean that I don't love my parents and my family. You shouldn't comment on this and you don't have the right to comment on it too because every family has their different ways to communicate and connect together.

                    My mum is always busy all the time. She has lots of activities all the time whenever I call her. I can't call her at 2pm as she might be meeting in school (I tried that before). It's the same with 3-4pm. Then you can call while she back from school. Oh, sorry...nope... She's going to dance~ line dance. Then, back from line dance, my 2nd brother will call (That's time for him). Then, she has lots of homework to do and preparations for the next day to school. (I experience how she lives while I back at home.) Then play game. Every time I call home (once per month as I said), she will be playing game. My parents are good in IT, they are more clever in that than I am. Quite embarrassing... Weekend? my mum even more busy. She has all her tuition on this both days now.

                    Although I didn't call home everyday but I spend all my time with my parents and home every time I go home during the holiday. I make sure I accompany my parents to have meals everyday. I will make sure I have my meals my parents although I'm going out with my friends. Normally, I only out for once per holiday with my friends no matter how long is the holiday. I know that my parents need me more to accompany them at home or outings than my friends are. I don't think that your Daughters can do so. I'm quite proud of myself in this. No matter how many times my friends invite me, I will reject them if it's time for meals or my parents want me to help out something or outings.

                    About the carry things stuff, so sorry to say that, I practice that since I was primary school. I make sure I help my mum's things as I could every time I go out with my mum. When we go to market or hypermarket, I will carry all the things she buys. I'm still practicing this all the time.

                     Even though I know that I'm not a good daughter, I don't need you to tell me how a good daughter should be like. I really don't like others to comment on my family and that's who I am. No one can comment on my family even though we have the "same surname".

I'm chasing buses.

As usual, I'm always in blur.
Don't know where to start,
don't know what to do,
don't know...keep on don't know about everything.
Then suddenly...

"BOOM!!!"

I find out that there are really tans of stuffs waiting for me.
Ya, they are really kind as they are always there for me. In the same time, they are quite cruel as they never wait for me. It's so tiring. They make me feel like chasing buses, trains or flights.
I have to chase a bus to get on it. When I get down from it and I thought that I can be a little more relax but not.... There come another one and I will be lost if I didn't get on it.
Consequently, I have to chase the bus.
This is how life go on, right?
Every one of us trying to chase buses which can drive us to our destinations in order to make us to be a more successful person.

Hope : The bus I'm on now will drive me to my destination but not drive me lost.